Starting School: A Helpful Guide to preparing your child for starting primary school

Starting school is a big milestone for both you and your child. It marks the beginning of new routines, new friendships, and a brand‑new adventure. If your child is starting primary school this September—especially if you’re starting school in Bath & North East Somerset, or Somerset —these simple tips can help make the transition smooth and positive.

Preparing Your Child for Primary School

You could spend the summer holidays helping your child prepare for school in a gentle and supportive way.

Language Skills

• Encourage following simple instructions
• Read together daily and chat about stories you are reading together
• Help them recognise and respond to their name

Physical Independence

• Practice dressing and undressing
• Use cutlery and open lunchbox items
• Use the toilet independently and wash hands

Early Learning Skills

• Spot their name in print
• Hold a pencil or crayon with control
• Count small groups of objects

Motor Skills

• Use scissors safely
• Run, jump, climb, and play outdoors
• Try threading beads or simple puzzles

Self‑Regulation

• Wait briefly for attention
• Try again after mistakes
• Manage small frustrations

Getting ready for your child’s first day at school

Make sure your child has:

• A labelled water bottle
• A school book bag
• Named uniform
• Spare clothes if requested

If you’re starting school in Bath, affordable uniform can be found at:

• The Uniform Cupboard, Lower Bristol Road
• Local Bath charity shops
• Facebook Marketplace
• School or PTA second‑hand uniform sales

The First Day of Primary School

Practice getting dressed in uniform during the holidays so mornings feel easier. Arrive on time—your child’s teacher will greet them and help them settle in.

Reception children can choose a school meal or bring a healthy packed lunch.

You can help your child feel confident with simple phrases like:

• “I will meet my teacher”
• “I will play and learn”
• “I will make new friends”
• “My grown‑up will come back for me”
• “I am safe. I am brave. I can do it.”

Many Bath schools offer staggered start days, especially for younger children.

Staying Connected

Your child’s primary school will keep you updated through:

• Class Dojo or similar apps
• Newsletters
• Emails
• Parent meetings

Attendance Matters

Even in Reception, attending school every day helps children to:

• Build routines
• Make friends
• Join in learning
• Feel secure

It’s normal for starting school to feel a little scary—small steps and gentle encouragement make a big difference.

Here at The Partnership Trust we work with 17 primary, first and special schools across Bath, North East Somerset and Somerset. Last year we welcomed more than 300 children to reception classes, and our team of highly skilled and supportive staff have many years’ experience of helping young pupils to settle in to their new school.